Friday, October 10th, 2008
VICTORY!!!!

Today is a very happy day in my book!
Sadly, I know people will disagree and that's fine everyone can have their own opinion on this subject but for me I'm just bursting through my skin and can't help but share because I'm so excited!

SO THE NEWS:

The CT Supreme Court held that Connecticut's current system of civil unions unconstitutionally discriminates on the basis of sexual orientation. The court held that gays and lesbians are a quasi-suspect class for the purposes of the Equal Protection Clause, and therefore any discrimination must meet an intermediate level of scrutiny.



Finally, marriage is a right for all in CT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Things like this make me feel positive about becoming an attorney!


A little political background with the Kerrigan case is that the Connecticut Supreme Court has been holding onto this decision for awhile and it was pretty clear that they weren't going to release the decision until after the election because they didn't want it to become national news in the sense that it would effect the election or voters. So then when it came out that the Court was going to give their decision today my first thoughts were really doubtful and I assumed that if they're letting the decision be known before the election that just means no equality in marriage....BUT I guess in the VP debate last week when both sides made it clear that they oppose gay marriage the CT Supreme Court realized that it wouldn't effect the election!


Its a good day when we can recognize that all should be given the same privileges under law!
42 Comments
lgrant
1) Sounds like a good day and a good reason to be happy, Amber. Congratulations!!
LGrant   Friday, October 10, 2008
nikideaton
2) Go Connecticut!
niki   Friday, October 10, 2008
dennydeaton
3) One small step for man, one giant leap for mankind!
Denny Deaton   Friday, October 10, 2008
soundchick
4) 3 down, 47 to go. Sounds like they called it what it is: discrimination.
soundchick   Friday, October 10, 2008
5) This is a Win-Win situation for eveyone! Gays getting hitched, and McCain/Palin get to rally their rabid base.
obamabot   Friday, October 10, 2008
willnbek
6) GO AHEAD WITH YOSELF CLAY AIKEN!!!!!!!!!
WillnBek.com   Friday, October 10, 2008
daveheinzel
7) I think we can all agree that Clay Aiken should not be allowed to marry, no matter what gender his partner is, and no matter what gender a team of scientists decide that Clay is. But this is an overwhelming success for everyone other than Clay.
Dave Heinzel   Friday, October 10, 2008
mrsshoo
8) Go ahead and let Clay Aiken get married...just don't let him use his own genetics to procreate.
Sarah S.   Friday, October 10, 2008
courtneyheinzel
9) too late for that!
Courtney Heinzel   Friday, October 10, 2008
spike
10) Great! I can't believe this is even an issue.
Spike   Friday, October 10, 2008
mrsshoo
11) Clay Aiken fathered a child?! Where have I been??
Sarah S.   Friday, October 10, 2008
hawkwolf
12) Give you a clue it maybe 37 to 13 in the future because there aren't enough Lesbians and Gays in the Southern States to get any thing this atrocis passed in any legislature in these states. The only people in North Carolina that are in favor of this type activity are the people in Chapel Hill and Charlotte. Just for any body's information Clay Aiken is a disgrace to North Carolina.
BeanCounter37   Friday, October 10, 2008
hawkwolf
13) Being Gay deserves no priviledges or rirights under the law of any state. It scares me that more of them are coming out of the closet, because I wonder they been doing in the closet.
BeanCounter37   Friday, October 10, 2008
igna83
14) YAY for Connecticut!!!!!!! Come on Illinois, you can do it, too!! My brothers-in-law, my aunts and several cousins would like their marriages to be legal here, as well. And yes Sarah, Clay Aiken and his 50-something business manager had a child together...that baby sure is a sweet thing. Wonder if he'll be able to sing as well as his daddy.
Angi   Friday, October 10, 2008
igna83
15) PS. Oh and BeanCounter, how would you like it if I told you that you didn't qualify for any rights in this country because you're old? That's about how it feels to be discriminated against for something you have no control over - it's no different than not allowing slaves to be citizens or not permitting them or women to vote: UNCONSTITUTIONAL!!
Angi   Friday, October 10, 2008
igna83
16) ...sorry, don't get me started on THIS issue!
Angi   Friday, October 10, 2008
RickMonday
17) We dont want Illinois to do it.
RickMonday   Friday, October 10, 2008
Russ
18) Who's we?
Russ   Friday, October 10, 2008
LaurieRogers
19) Why is Clay Aiken a disgrace to NC, Beancounter? I like him.
Laurie   Friday, October 10, 2008
RickMonday
20) the majority of the people in Illinois
RickMonday   Friday, October 10, 2008
Leslie
21) It's heart warming to see the positive responses to this blog-except for the few that I wouldn't expect to share any liberal point of view. It is interesting that RickMonday can write on behalf of the entire State of Illinois.
Leslie   Friday, October 10, 2008
daveheinzel
22) RickMonday = the majority of people in Illinois. You learn something new every day.
Dave Heinzel   Friday, October 10, 2008
Amber
23) I've been wondering where you have been Leslie!!!!
Amber   Friday, October 10, 2008
gotshoo
24) Angi, the BeanO listens to Fox "News," he knows what he's talking about. The other day he told me I'd start supporting the NRA after I got robbed by my students.

The man is a genius. He may be a AARP card carrying member, but he can see into the future. I don't even have students. Like he knows something I don't know.

This weekend Mrs. S and I are headed to Walmart to pick up a gun and one of those sexy magazines so she can read up on Clay. I haven't told her Britney and K Fed broke up yet. She'll be devastated.
shoo   Friday, October 10, 2008
BrianHamrick
25) I hope each of you supporting this will declare your intent to stand by the polygamists and NAMBLA (promoting "legitimate") sexual relationships between adults and children) who will be coming down the pipes next. Please, go on the record, right now. If you're going to be consistent, it demands you take this position.
Brian   Saturday, October 11, 2008
spike
26) Brian If you go back to the top you will see this is about gay marriage and another state agreeing to recognize it :)
When people asking to have sexual relationships with children come 'down the pipes' there will be conversations about that.
Please do not put adult marriage in the same boat with pedophiles. It is a very hateful thing to do.
Spike   Saturday, October 11, 2008
mrsshoo
27) Brittany and K Fed broke up?!??!?!??!

Brian, we've discussed this before. A consenting adult relationship is completely different from an adult taking advantage of a child who doesn't have the cognitive ability to make this choice. So, no, quite frankly, it doesn't demand it.
Sarah S.   Saturday, October 11, 2008
igna83
28) Amen, Spike! Because there are SOOOOO many gay pedophiles in our prison system today, right Brian? Perhaps you should do some research before lumping polygamists, pedophiles and the gay community together. Thanks.
Angi   Saturday, October 11, 2008
RickMonday
29) This is really about judicial activism.(Judges acting as lawmakers) As usual, the liberal court seems to find things that are not there. First Roe v. Wade (worst decision of all time) and now this.

And yes, the majority of the people in Illinois are not for gay marriage. In fact I would be willing to go along with what the liberal voters of California decide next month. Gay marriage is on the ballot in that state.

I know that we have had this conversation before and I support civil unions. To me, allowing gay people to marry actually infringes upon my right as a normal heterosexual. It is basically saying that we dont have standards anymore. How can a society continue to function if it doesnt have standards. Oh well, good for the gays in Connecticut. I hope it makes them "feel" better. I sure would not want them to come under anymore emotional distress because they couldnt marry.
RickMonday   Saturday, October 11, 2008
ppike
30) Brian, I'm sorry, nephew, but that is just about the most ignorant comment I've ever read from an intelligent, educated guy. Two adults in a healthy loving relationship has absolutely nothing to do with with sexual predators. Just plain stupid.

RM, Standards?!?!?! Do you think mixed race marriages should be illegal? - I mean they really f$#%ed with the standards, too. And, how, exactly, does a gay couple getting married infringe on your right as a "normal" (that could be questionable) heterosexual? How does it effect your life AT ALL - except in your mind?
pegi   Saturday, October 11, 2008
RickMonday
31) Pegi,

I have no problem with mixed race marriages. But I do have a problem when JUDGES change the definition of marriage from one man/one woman to just 2 people, it certainly dilutes the definition and standards.

If you read the case, part of the lawsuit had to do with "feelings'. The gays "felt" insecure. I will ask you,how is a civil union with full legal rights different than "marriage" accept in the gays' mind. How would leaving the term as just "civil union" effect their lives at all?

I say let the voters decide. Watch the California ballot initiative closely. I will predict that they will not allow same sex marriages.

Furthermore, a marriage between a man and woman is not the same as a man and a man or a woman and woman. And yet somehow these judges claim that it is? Sad.
RickMonday   Saturday, October 11, 2008
ppike
32) Just a little R-E-S-P-E-C-T.
pegi   Saturday, October 11, 2008
billpearch
33) What a nice, cheery start to the weekend.
Bill   Saturday, October 11, 2008
RickMonday
34) It is not about a lack of respect. I respect gays, I have worked with gays and I have friends who are gay. This is not about discrimination. It is about standards. Let them have civil unions so they can have full legal benefits but dont infringe upon my right and the rights of millions of others so that a small minority can "feel" better and get rid of their "emotional distress".
RickMonday   Saturday, October 11, 2008
spike
35) Speaking of feeling secure....why does the acknowledgment of gay marriage threaten you? I don't get how it infringes on your right as a 'normal' heterosexual.
Spike   Saturday, October 11, 2008
ppike
36) ditto, spike.
pegi   Saturday, October 11, 2008
RickMonday
37) Spike,

I have feelings too and I take pride in the fact that marriage is between a man and a woman. Maybe I will become emotionally distressed about this ruling. I mean that was one of the issues that was brought up during the case. So, if gays can use emotional distress as an argument, why cant I?

Seriously though, I am tougher than that and can deal with it but why cant they have their own legal definition of a relationship in the form of a civil union. How does not being able to be "married" affect them one way or the other?
RickMonday   Saturday, October 11, 2008
reera
38) Rick, I agree with Pegi and Spike and I still don't understand how this is infringing on your rights.
Brian, I am very disturbed by your comments in#25. Its this kind of irrational thinking that just brew hatred and mistrust.
dannie   Saturday, October 11, 2008
George
39) I think the point Brian was trying to make is that society's morals just seem to gradually erode. Start chipping away with small things and the snowball will start to roll....
LimeyGeorge   Saturday, October 11, 2008
RickMonday
40) Dannie,

Like I said earlier, I have a sense of pride about marriage and it is emotionally disturbing and stressful to have the definition of marriage to include people who are not heterosexual. I say this in a respectful manner. I am probably one of the few conservatives who fully support comprehensive civil unions.

So, by allowing a man and a man to marry it degrades to a certain extent, traditional "marriage".

I think marriage was brought about by our species' need to procreate and to grow. By definition, this is impossible with homosexuals. I know that some people cannot have kids and some marriages fail, but the basic ingredients are there for them to at least have a chance to live up to the standards of a traditional marriage.

Now I ask you, why cannot homosexuals be satisfied with comprehensive civil unions?
RickMonday   Saturday, October 11, 2008
lindsayogburn
41) I had something to say...... but I forgot.
Lindsay   Saturday, October 11, 2008
Leslie
42) Hey Amber! You sure got 'em all worked up with your blog. LOL!!!!
Leslie   Saturday, October 11, 2008
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