Monday, September 15th, 2008
The Station

I mentioned in another blog that I shared a piece with Denny years ago called The Station. I thought maybe some folks might like to read it. I've kept it nearly 25 years and it still has meaning to me. It's a great one for people in transition between jobs, homes, etc.


Tucked away in our subconscious is an idyllic vision. We see ourselves on a long trip that spans the continent. We are traveling by train. Out the windows we drink in the passing scene of children waving at a crossing, of cattle grazing, of smoke pouring from a power plant, of rows of corn and wheat, of flatlands and valleys, of mountains, skylines and village halls.

But uppermost in our minds is the final destination. On a certain day, at a certain hour, we will pull into the station. Once we get there, so many dreams will come true.

How restlessly we pace the aisles, damning the minutes for loitering—waiting for the station.

“When we reach the station, that will be it!!”, we cry. “When I’m 18.” “When I buy a new 450 SL Mercedes Benz!!” “When I reach the age of retirement, I shall live happily ever after!!” “When I put the last kid through college.” “When I get a promotion.”

Sooner or later, we must realize there is no station, no one place to arrive. The true joy of life is the trip. The station is only a dream. It constantly outdistances us.

It isn’t the burdens of today that drive men mad. It is the regrets over yesterday and the fear of tomorrow. Regret and fear are twin thieves who rob us of today.

So, stop pacing the aisles and counting the miles. Instead, climb more mountains, eat more ice cream, go barefoot more often, watch more sunsets, laugh more, cry less. Life must be lived as we go along. The station will come soon enough.


– Robert J. Hastings
Tags:  clouds, life
15 Comments
nheinzel
1) I love this, Linda. Steve often says "Are we there yet?" and I always answer, "No, thank goodness."
!   Monday, September 15, 2008
lgrant
2) Maybe you'd better share this with Steve. :)
LGrant   Monday, September 15, 2008
dennydeaton
3) The Station has always been there for me, a great reminder to look out the window. Thanks for sharing it years ago!
Denny Deaton   Monday, September 15, 2008
Leslie
4) I am going to print this out at work tomorrow. I do a lot of public speaking and I am always looking for interesting quotes and thoughts to incorporate in my talks. I will have to include this in a future speech. It is so eloquent and oh so true! Thanks for sharing. "Anonymous" is very wise indeed.
Leslie   Monday, September 15, 2008
lindagsings
5) This was very, very good. Thanks so much for sharing it. I will for sure share this with my family and close friends.
SA Tenor   Monday, September 15, 2008
reera
6) Sometimes we need help in putting things in perspective-thanks.
dannie   Monday, September 15, 2008
YammaSue
7) Very profound, Linda. I've already printed it up as a reminder to live today fully & enjoy the journey. Thanks for sharing.
YammaSue   Monday, September 15, 2008
KayDee
8) This is my in laws favorite poem and they have it framed on the wall at their house!
KAYDEE   Monday, September 15, 2008
lgrant
9) That's the first person I've ever known who already knew it, Kaydee! That's very cool!!!
LGrant   Tuesday, September 16, 2008
grantdeaton
10) I love this story, I share it every summer on TWB with the participants. Thanks, Linda for a great reminder of how sweet life is!
grantdeaton   Tuesday, September 16, 2008
lgrant
11) I didn't know that, Grant, that's very cool. It's definitely worth sharing. :)
LGrant   Tuesday, September 16, 2008
nikideaton
12) I think that we often have to remind ourselves to take all of life in. I sometimes look at Dylan smiling and dancing and I think that I never want to forget these moments. Time goes too fast. Have a nice day! XOXO
niki   Tuesday, September 16, 2008
lgrant
13) I know being a parent is up and down but I also know they all say it goes by before you know it so try to enjoy it while they are young. :) I'm glad you and Denny remember that and do your best to enjoy it as much as you can. With Dylan that can't be too hard--she's pretty cute. :)

You have a good one too, Niece! :)
LGrant   Tuesday, September 16, 2008
kgilmore
14) This is one of my favorite poems. It was written by Robert Hastings who lived in the Springfield area. He was a friend of my father-in-law. Here is a little more information about him: http://robertjhastings.com/.

He even wrote a story about my father-in-law and his slingshots. All of his stories are home spun and teach a lesson. He has published some books.
Gilmore Family   Monday, September 29, 2008
lgrant
15) Thanks for that info. I've never taken the time to check. I'll have to look at the website when more time allows but I have edited my blog to give credit to the author--he certainly deserves the credit!
LGrant   Monday, September 29, 2008
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