Monday, May 26th, 2008
Some Thoughts on Memorial Day

I live in North Carolina where, in many counties, Memorial Day is still not observed in the public schools. For many years that was a puzzle to me. NC is a conservative state, very often elects the "war" or "tough ass" candidate, contains quite a number of people who will threaten to do you bodily harm if you suggest conservative American policies (read "America, love it or leave it") are wrong, love their guns... yet in many places we don't observe Memorial Day, honoring those incredible men and women who have lost their lives in service to our country. We proudly plaster "Support Our Troops," American flags and yellow ribbons all over our cars but we don't really follow up on those exclamations with action. I didn't understand, but then...

Aha! Memorial Day was begun after the Civil War to honor Union soldiers who had fallen. After World War I it became a national holiday to honor all fallen US soldiers. Don't know about other southern states, but North Carolina has been a little slow to accept the change. We're all about car races and ball games on Memorial Day weekend but not actually observing the purpose of the holiday. I'd say it's about time that all NC school children at least LEARNED about and observed the holiday like the rest of the country.

My heart goes out this day to all those wounded and fallen soldiers and their families. Thank you for your unfathomable sacrifice.
8 Comments
nheinzel
1) I am really stunned, Pegi. I thought Memorial Day was a federal holiday and that all states observed it. Man, you learn something new every day. I am very disappointed that North Carolina doesn't think honoring our war dead is important enough to declare a holiday. You said it is not observed in many counties in N.C. Does that mean it is observed in some? That would seem even stranger!
!   Monday, May 26, 2008
ppike
2) Nanc, I can't determine if it's a state holiday or not, but I tend to think not. Yes, some counties observe it, some do not. It IS strange! From everything I've read I have to assume the reluctance comes from the older generation with an ax to grind, then how hard it is to simply make people change!
pegi   Monday, May 26, 2008
cdcgull
3) Live and learn! I'm with Nancy on this ~ I thought today was a federal holiday ~ it SHOULD be!!!
cdcgull   Monday, May 26, 2008
nheinzel
4) I just said to somebody the other day, "The Civil War's not over." I wasn't kidding! This is just another example.
!   Monday, May 26, 2008
cdcgull
5) You are right, Sludge!
cdcgull   Monday, May 26, 2008
SallyPants
6) That is bizarre. Do you really think people are hesitant about Memorial Day in the South because of its history as a pro-Union holiday? How many people even know that?

Wikipedia (for whatever it's worth) says Memorial Day is a federal holiday. It also says this about its history, which I think is interesting:

According to Professor David Blight of the Yale University History Department, the first memorial day was observed in 1865 by liberated slaves at the historic race track in Charleston. The site was a former Confederate prison camp as well as a mass grave for Union soldiers who had died while captive. The freed slaves reinterred the dead Union soldiers from the mass grave to individual graves, fenced in the graveyard & built an entry arch declaring it a Union graveyard; a very daring thing to do in the South shortly after North's victory. On May 30 1868 the freed slaves returned to the graveyard with flowers they'd picked from the countryside & decorated the individual gravesites, thereby creating the 1st Decoration Day. A parade with thousands of freed blacks and Union soldiers was followed by patriotic singing and a picnic.
SallyPants   Monday, May 26, 2008
ppike
7) Wow, I didn't know that part of it, Sally! I can imagine that must have been a very powerful experience.
According to what I read and have heard, it was not a national holiday until after WWI. And, yes, I'm sure the history kept it from becoming recognized then and for many years after. Now I think it may be because it has never really been part of the history of so many locals. The state government recognizes it and banks have for many years, but apparently there is no state mandate for schools to recognize the holiday. Folks around here don't like government telling them what to do. Here in the mountains, people continue to vehemently vote against any kind of zoning regulations or laws that would actually protect their interests because they think it will infringe on their rights. Another story, I know, but it's a mindset.
pegi   Monday, May 26, 2008
reera
8) As I mentioned before growing up in the midwest, Memorial Day was really sacred. Richard and I have been baffled by the attitude you describe Pegi. Now tht we live in a really small town it is more apparent to us. But then again I about chocked on my coke when I was on the planning board here and we had to explain that "multi-family dwellings" were condo's and not one apartment where several families lived.It used to be that Memorial Day was always May30th when the Feds decided they wanted a 3 day holiday it was changed to the 4th Monday in May and I think thats when it began to loose its meaning.
dannie   Monday, May 26, 2008
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