Thursday, October 2nd, 2008
Totally Off the Subject

Well this is going to be nothing about politics Its about aging-I know here we go again...I'm not complaining just makin some observations.When I turned 40 I begged my friends not to do the whole "over the hill-lordy, lordy she's turning 40" thing. When I turned 50 I tried to not mention it and my staff stat paged me to the conference room and surprised me with a cake.Then I turned 60-sigh, deep breath, so ok, "what of it." Time goes by, things change, and yeah, I'm a year older. #1I'm still ALIVE. #2 I'm reasonably healthy-a few things but all manageable #3 I'm married to a younger man-Happy Birthday my sweet guy!
I think I was really traumatized by the whole "over the hill" thing. If forty started the down hill slide then where am I at 60? Sure my legs have so many spider veins I look like I have maps of all the tributaries to the Mississippi River. My 18 hour needs to be retired for a 36er. My Grandma's genes have kept my hair brunette with a little help from my good friend L'oreal. I have all my own teeth, minus one that I wiped out permanently on Aunt Lil's peanut brittle. I impress everyone by being able to read the fine print, thanks to Lasik. I can't do the splits or touch the center of my back but then I never have. Thanks to having very oily skin as a teen, good genes (thanks again Grandma)and I never smoked,I don't have too many lines.So taking inventory, I think I'm doing ok on the down hill run.
But there has been one very significant change in my physical attributes that I am very happy about. For 60 years I have had the straightest, no body , limp blah hair.
Baby fine, it would never hold a curl unless I had one of those "curly" perms and then it might have some curl for 4 weeks. The last month I have been noticing something kind of weird. At first I thought it was the way I slept , going to bed with my hair wet one night. It was wavy when I woke up." Cool, I bet that will never happen again," I thought looking in the mirror. I passed on using my hot roller and went out au naturale. Well, its been about a month now and I swear its getting curlier. I love it! I just squinch it with my fingers and viola! Curls, almost ringlets. Hey , this down hill run isn't so bad. Here I come with my new do, packing as much living in 24hours that I can . " Dancing like no one is looking, singing like no
one is listening." Imanging my " downhill" run is a ski jump, launching me into more adventures.
13 Comments
Leslie
1) Bravo!!!!!! I wish my straight hair would turn curly. I really enjoyed this insightful blog.
Leslie   Thursday, October 2, 2008
courtneyheinzel
2) Isn't hair crazy? My mom's hair went super curly around when she was 50. It's not so much now. My hair got curlier after each child. If I kept going, I'd have an afro.
Courtney Heinzel   Thursday, October 2, 2008
lgrant
3) I forego L'Oreal and it will be what it will be hair-wise. I've always had hair with a lot of body that for years I thought was coarse but hairstylists assured me was fine--just a lot of it and lots of body. So, I've never had the straight hair issue--usually the opposite. My sister got the straight hair and abused my head with those horrible spikey rollers and hard plastic picks to make it the way she wanted it when we were growing up. The problem with that was it had body but like me a will of its own and it went its own way regardless of her assaults. She hasn't hit 60 yet but maybe she will say if hers has changed over the years if she reads this (Gigi).

I've noticed, even with all this hair and body, that gray hair tends to be nearly kinky on my head and very curling so I'm wondering if it is that stuff that L'Oreal keeps brunette for you that might be adding to the wave/curl. Isn't it nice to find something positive about aging since everyone seems to want to dwell on the negative aspects? :)
LGrant   Thursday, October 2, 2008
reera
4) I've been using the same products on my hair since I turned it orange in high school:>Its actually very dark brown so I "enhance" it just a little (really just a little!)
dannie   Thursday, October 2, 2008
billpearch
5) It's funny that you mentioned aging. I turned 35 a few weekends ago. It hit me. I'm halfway to 70. Sobering thought. At least I have all my hair.
Bill   Thursday, October 2, 2008
girlcarew
6) Hooray for you. Age is only about what you feel. And you've given me hope for my superfine, superstraight hair.
girlcarew   Friday, October 3, 2008
reera
7) Bill, Sorry no sympathy, you be just a baby.
dannie   Friday, October 3, 2008
8) Dannie, I swear the older I get the curlier I get, forgetting that I was turning white at 18. I finally gave up when the white roots began showing three days after I colored it. We are not getting older just better.... yea right....that's my story and I'm sticking to it. Maybe better at some things but our bodies don't do the same things we used to be able to......remember we are only a little over half old. You have swung on kudzu....done olympic feats in the bathroom.......and you are still going strong.
pami b   Friday, October 3, 2008
reera
9) I had a wonderful man say to me you aren't twice as old as a 30 year old, you are twice as better!!!!!!
dannie   Friday, October 3, 2008
lgrant
10) And he is right!
LGrant   Friday, October 3, 2008
justmeg
11) As my 40th approaches - I am not looking forward to it - until it occurs to me that I know so much more and have so much more control over my life then I did when I was 20 or even 30. When I think that way - 40 does notlook all that bad
justmeg   Friday, October 3, 2008
reera
12) Enjoy it-I much rather be 40 than 20.
dannie   Saturday, October 4, 2008
lgrant
13) #26 was my favorite year. I was eating incredibly healthy and very active and living in the Blue Ridge area. It was a great time. It wasn't so much the age but the moment. I don't consider birthdays a bad thing--they always bring something new to the day. And if they last for a few weeks--even more fun! :D
LGrant   Saturday, October 4, 2008
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